"Can books change lives?"

A few years ago, during a retrospective, a scrum team member told me in 'what went well': "You were out of office yesterday and the scrum call went really well, since X conducted it". ( If my 11 year old daughter would have been there in the room, she would have shouted 'Mom you are Roasted!!!!' LOL :))

I am not a saint and I was obviously offended. But I then remembered Victor Frankl's words in Man's Search for Meaning', "We give meaning to our suffering by the way in which we respond to it". So I quickly recovered and told him, "We are talking about the last sprint here so you can probably write down somewhere and remember to say this in the next retrospective :)." Everyone couldn't help but laugh. After the meeting I spoke to the team members, on what way X conducted the meeting differently and tried to implement them in my style in the coming meetings.

A situation that was intended to make me angry, actually gave me scope to learn and be better at my job with the response I chose.

If you ask me, "Can books change lives?" I would say, "Books change our perspectives, and help us respond better to situations and in turn change our lives."

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  1. RamyaSeptember 4, 2022 at 2:33 AM

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  2. RamyaSeptember 4, 2022 at 2:41 AM

    I second this... nice kavi..u took this in a way that would less affect u and make a better u..

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